Friday, December 31, 2010

Our wish for you ...

T.S. Eliot wrote "For last year’s words belong to last year’s language. And next year’s words await another voice. And to make an end is to make a beginning."

A new year is upon us and what a year it has been! As we've told you before we will be spending tonight in our new home province thinking about all of you.

Our wish for all of you who read these words remains the same. May the new year bring each and everyone of you the blessings you long for and deserve. May you all be blessed with health and happiness. And may this be true for many, many years to come.

Happy New Year!

Much love to all,

Neil & Veronica.

Thursday, December 30, 2010

Words to live by ...

"Take a picture and get it framed, plan adventures, stay in contact with those you care about, learn the waitress' name, sleep in, try on a wig, stick your feet in the snow, love what surrounds you and the life you have!"


This is Alana. A year ago today, she was in a terrible accident which cut her life way too short. I met her through my best friend, Brian. He and two other of his (now our) friends grew up with Alana. Neil and I were lucky enough to be in that group of people that would have a chance to meet Alana in her short life, and we are blessed for it.

The words I have quoted are from her cousin, Kim and I have borrowed them to share it with all of you out there. Wherever you are, whoever you are.
That was Alana. She lived life while dancing and "hip swooshing" (a term she demonstrated for Brian and I the last time we saw her) to the beat of her own drum. We should all learn from that.
I went to her Facebook today and saw that all the people who met her, even for a brief moment, have taken a page from her book.
The messages on her wall today, while sad and full of heart ache, are filled with the great memories she created with everyone and it makes me think that she would like that.

Always finding the joy in the little moments. Remembering the good times she spent with everyone right down to the conversations that were had years prior. Always having the exact gift that reflected your personality (she once bought me a purse with an owl on it because the owl was saying "life's a hoot" and she knows that word makes me laugh). More importantly, she stayed in touch with EVERYONE! Something I definitely have to work much harder at next year, I promise. She made it look so easy! That was Alana. She is missed by many.

So whether you ever had the chance to meet Alana or not, remember...
"Take a picture and get it framed, plan adventures, stay in contact with those you care about, learn the waitress' name, sleep in, try on a wig, stick your feet in the snow, love what surrounds you and the life you have!"

Alana did all those things, and she did them well.
Definitely words to live by...

<3

This is a video of the memorial ride held for her last year with her B.C. family and friends which I borrowed from Heather's page, Alana's cousin and fellow adventurer.




Friday, December 24, 2010

Our Christmas letter to you...

Hello Everyone and greetings from Weyburn Saskatchewan!

It's Christmas time again and we find ourselves reminiscing about all that has happened in the span of a year.

At this time last year, so much was still unknown for us. We didn't know where we were going to live, we were still in the planning stages of our move while living in two different provinces and we got engaged upon Neil's arrival at the airport on Christmas Day.

At the start of 2010 we finalized and finished our move, solved our housing situation, and Neil was settling into the routine of his new job. We learned it's tough to heat an old farm house in the middle of the Prairies. North winds can freeze the pipes in your kitchen, but then again, after reaching any temperature below minus 20, ANY wind will freeze your kitchen pipes! We learned that deer travel in herds and stare at you from across the street behind the church in the middle of the night (surely plotting to attack). This gave rise to the question of “where do the deer go?”... think about it... there is no forest here.

After a winter of driving 30 minutes each way for a jug of milk, we decided it was time to move closer to civilization. In June we found a great apartment in Weyburn and we were finally able to unwrap and unpack all of our belongings. Here we endured some of the “worst storms” in the Prairies according to the locals who apologized and/or blamed us for the “crazy weather”. It was by all accounts one of the wettest springs and early summers in recent memory... or at least that's what everyone told us.

By August, we had started to settle into our new life, just in time for our first visitors. Neil's parental units arrived and we started to explore the Province. By that time, all the fields were green, yellow and purple with the wheat, canola and flax crops. It really is beautiful out here. We went to Moose Jaw, Regina and Roleau (a.k.a. “Dog River”, the town where “Corner Gas” was filmed”) and had a great time.

We also visited the usual suspects Oungre, Tribune, Weyburn and Estevan which we also visited with La Mama D.P. (Veronica's mom) who came to spend Thanksgiving with us. The d. P. girls let loose and did lots of shopping in Weyburn. And whoever says shopping doesn't pay off should know that a shopping spree in search of Weyburn souvenirs is what led Veronica to her new job!

We started as visitors to a Museum in Weyburn and now Veronica is the new manager!! See? Shopping = job. We also went to Saskatoon with La Mama. We fell in love with that city. If you've never been, you should go. We highly recommend it. We'll even meet you there!

Time really does fly when you're having fun! And so here we are again at Christmas time. We really can't believe it's been a year already! We've had snow since Halloween, but we really don't think about that anymore. Something happens when you live out here. Maybe it's because there is no escaping it, or we're just getting used to it, but we don't really complain about the snow as much as we did when we were in Toronto. There's snow... lots of it and it comes down almost daily, so we bought winter boots (which neither of us had done in many, many years), we put on lots of layers, we have emergency kits in our car and away we go!

So what have we learned this year? What do we know for sure? For one thing, we have learned to practice what we preach and that if an opportunity presents itself, you should always take it. Wrong or right, there is always something to be gained by taking a chance. As we write this letter, we know for sure this is where we are meant to be for now. We miss our family and our friends and we can't wait to see you all wherever we meet. We can't wait for the next year to get going to see where we end up in another year from now! We have caught the bug! The travel bug! It is so much fun to explore new places and to have all your new surroundings be an adventure and we still have so much more to see!! Will we do it all over again? You bet!! Where do we sign up?!! For now, our home is here and we are happy.

We will be spending Christmas here as Neil has to work over the holidays and so we will certainly be missing the sights, sounds and smells of past holidays spent with family and friends, missing you all terribly and wishing to see you soon! :)

Our wish for you this Christmas is to take nothing for granted! May 2011 be full of your own adventures and may you see all your hopes and dreams come true.

Merry Christmas and a healthy, happy and prosperous New Year to you all!

Lots of love from the Prairies,

Neil and Veronica

Of course, we couldn't leave our Christmas letter to you without a few pictures of Killer as a few people have been wondering what he is up to these days!

So here he is claiming all the gifts under the tree and because we weren't paying attention to him...

...he then decided to claim one of the tree ornaments for himself.

Monday, December 6, 2010

Happy 1st Blogoversary "Long gone to Saskatchewan! ..."!!!

Did we just use the word "Blogoversary"? Is that even a word? Anyway, Blogoversary, anniversary, annually marking of a date, no matter which way you say it, this date holds some importance for us.

One year ago today, I (Neil) got on a plane for the very first time, just like a big boy!
I know now that I don't mind flying, it's just the landing that hurts my ears like hell.

Today marks one year of me (Neil) living in Saskatchewan. Tomorrow will be one year since I started my job. A lot has happened in that time. We got engaged, I travelled more of the country, spending two weeks in BC, drove 2700 kms in February through Northern Ontario and against all odds, did not encounter any bad weather. A feat I am not likely to try and repeat. Incidentally, Ontario is very large. 2010 of those kms were just to make it out of the province.

After 4 months, we escaped our Guantanamo Bay of a house in Tribune and settled in the booming metropolis of Weyburn. We've had visitors courtesy of my Mom and Dad and Veronica's Mom. Explored the province, travelling to Rouleau aka Dog River, Moose Jaw, Regina and finally Saskatoon. Veronica is off crutches, well crutch, we left one in Parry Sound. She has also started a new job which she will fill you in on later.

We've become acclimatized to the province and have already started making fun of our family and friends back in Ontario as we have realized Torontonians really are a bunch of wussies. Don't worry, we include ourselves in that description for when we lived there!

Things I have not gotten used to: saying SaskPower, not Hydro. Calling my hoodies "bunny-hugs" Something very unmanly about telling Veronica that I am wearing a "bunny-hug." The May 2-4 weekend being called "May Long" I thought the 2-4 thing was universal. Apparently Euchre is not a common game here either. What do their high school kids play?

In all seriousness, we love it here and this was the best thing for us.

On the first post of this blog, Veronica touched on some of the unknowns about coming here. There were even more unknowns that we realized, but we made it through and I wouldn't change a thing in the last 12 months.

At home in Saskatchewan,
Neil